Where Boys Become Men

Download or read book Where Boys Become Men written by Fran COLO and published by . This book was released on 2018-12-05 with total page 160 pages. Available in PDF, EPUB and Kindle. Book excerpt: Verbal abuse, physical discipline, grit and testosterone-fueled nonsense; high school at my all-male, religious, military Academy was all of that and much more. Inside the Academy's walls were hundreds of adolescent boys, and without any substantial female presence to reign in our aggressive, crude and disgusting nature, we fought, pranked each other, said and did revolting things, and we loved every second of it. But the real character of the Academy was found in its teachers and administrators. Mostly comprised of ex-military, former athletes, and old school religious instructors, they followed a strict and unforgiving teaching philosophy. But they didn't always discipline us for our inappropriate behavior. In fact, sometimes they joined in, and while students in other schools would embarrass and make fun of each other, our teachers often made fun of and embarrassed us. That's because the Academy was not a place that made any room for political correctness or people's feelings. It was a place designed to prepare us for life. Unlike most of today's schools, which shape this country's youth into entitled little crybabies, the Academy prepared us for the real world. Our coaches and teachers did not celebrate mediocrity. We learned how to handle harsh criticism, humiliation, failure, and adversity, all while learning self-discipline, respect, and how to carry ourselves with integrity. Did we goof off along the way? You're damn right we did, because the Academy was a place that allowed boys to be boys, but as a result, it taught us how to be men. As traditional male behaviors and characteristics get increasingly stifled in today's world of soft and spineless snowflakes, this book aims to illustrate the value such behaviors and characteristics have and the lessons that can be learned from them. The Academy is an example of how allowing such traits to thrive in the proper setting and with the proper guidance can lead to the virtues and fortitude necessary for life. Through a series of insights and short stories, this book takes you on my journey through life at the Academy and how it helped turn me into the man I am today.